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 How
to Write A Love Note
Ever had that magical moment when you had the perfect
opportunity to say that special something to that special
someone and you simply can't? You start to break out in
cold sweat, you feel butterflies in your stomach and you
are, quite literally, tongue-tied. This is when you should
use one of the most common, yet effective, tools in wooing
a girl - the Love Note.
The love note is a simple yet convenient way to convey your
emotions and feelings to a girl, without having to personally
perform it. It is also an indirect way for guys who are
afraid of upfront rejection to seek the affirmation they
need from the girl, without having to face the possibility
of a brutal rejection. Let's get down to how we should get
it written.
Poetic language to express affection with the comparisons
of her to the flowers, stars and whatever you can seem to
relate to seem well and good. But this would be more befitting
for people in the medieval times. In this modern age, men
have to face a new breed of women. The modern woman who
is a straightforward individual who seeks clarification
for whatever she receives. She accepts gifts, but she wants
to know why as well. She is also a practical romantic who
seeks realism in the dream world painted by the power of
the pen. With these in mind, you must also keep focus of
your love for her as you pen down how much you love her,
or how special she is, etc.
Here are some pointers to writing your love note:
- Start off by asking after her or on a general topic
common between the two of you. Simple greetings like,
"How have you been?" or "Heard you were feeling a bit
down…" will suffice. The key point is to not spoil the
surprise for her and make it seem like a sweet, harmless
note that you decided to write to her one fine (or not
so fine) day.
- Decide what your ultimate message is right from the
start (e.g. "I love you. Would you be mine?"). Think back
on all the events that have led to why you are now sitting
down to compose this note at this time.
- Pick one most memorable event that you think she would
remember and write about it. Make sure it is a good memory
or perhaps even a funny one. This will let her remember
about the good feeling and time that she had spent with
you previously.
- Follow on by writing about how you were feeling then
and what you are feeling now. This will provide the necessary
groundwork for the reason on why you are writing this
note to her. By this time, she should be getting the idea
on what this note is really about.
- Pop the question (whatever it may be). Be simple and
straightforward about it. Even a simple, "Would you be
mine?" would do just fine.
- End off by asking her to call you or to show you signs
of reciprocation to your declaration of love for her.
Make it simple and achievable for her so that she would
not have to go out of her way just to get it done. If
she does it, congratulations! You have made it!
Following the acceptance of the love note, a meeting in
person would be appropriate. This is to reinforce your affirmation
of love depicted in the note and the relationship between
the two of you. You cannot say you want her on one hand
and then not meet her when she accepts you right?
A well crafted love note is a simple and straightforward
mode of love declaration that has worked both ways throughout
the ages. It is up to you how you want to make this tool
work wonders for you in your journey to pursue your love
of a lifetime.
~Terence
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