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Guidelines
to Kissing
Why do we kiss?
Biologically, our lips are most sensitive to touch. Babies
put everything into their mouth so as to explore the object.
That's the way babies get to know the feel of the object.
As adults, we don't have to use our lips to sense an object,
but we use it to express and receive affection, to show
our desire and to enjoy the love. We are convinced how genuine
the love is through the way someone kisses, it is the gateway
to feel their heart.
Ready to Kiss?
There is no hard and fast rules about kissing. Kissing is
about two love-struck souls meeting and communicating with
fondness. As two draw close in smiles, their arms wrap around
each other's waist and when their eyes meet, both could
look at each other's lips as a sign of readiness for a kiss.
How to Kiss?
Relax your lips, close your eyes and lean closer till you
feel the softness of both lips. Keep it simple without the
French move. After the initial kiss, both might response
with a more passionate kiss if they enjoy it. Nevertheless,
if she evades the kiss, maybe she is not ready for it. It's
alright, give her more time to accept your love.
Should you be more adventurous for french kissing, start
off with a normal kiss. With lips slightly apart, gently
open your mouth and softly move your tongue into her mouth.
Playfully touch her tongue like flickering with the tips
of your tongues or rotate tongues in circular motions. Remember
to keep your mouth dry and don't forget to breathe. On a
more cautious level, enter and dart out quickly, thus ending
the kiss. Be mindful of her body language, if she gets tensed
and starts to push you off, stop what you are doing.
With the right partner and practice, kissing will be fun
and addictive!
Types of Bad Kissers
The Snake ~ long sharp tongue piercing into your
tonsils.
The Clam ~ tight-lipped and stiff like a statue.
The Woodpecker ~ repeatedly kissing and withdrawing
fast.
The Frog ~ their tongue dash in and out of your mouth.
The Squid ~ their mouth taste like a dirty ashtray.
The Whale ~ they completely engulf you, leaving you
breathless.
~Candyjug
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